Positive Discipline Parenting Part 2
如何管教小朋友

為什麼傳統管教孩子嘅方法並非長久湊效?
什麼是傳統管教?什麼是正面管教?

當父母看見兒子/女兒有不當行為,例如小至玩水,嚴重至 打人,發脾氣當街尖叫、滾地等等。當你的情緒被牽動至嬲怒時,你會以呼喝、打屁股、打手板等方法來「管教」子女嗎?

傳統管教觀念認為「不打不成器」,實際上打罵不一定能真正改變行為,打罵之所以能快速令孩子屈服、求饒,是因為孩子要逃避懲罰,表面上看起來, 問題行為似乎獲得改善,但孩子不一定能理解自己為何被處罰。

正面管教是一種既不用嚴厲也不嬌縱的方法,它以相互尊重和合作為基礎,在孩子自我控制的基礎上,培養孩子的各項技能。

What’s a better approach than traditional discipline parenting?

This video explains how traditional discipline parenting is ineffective long term.

Two effective ways of positive parenting are suggested.
1) acknowledge their feelings
2) come up with solution together

We should always note that misbehaviour is only the tip of the iceberg. Essentially, parents should find out why the child is behaving a certain way and understand their feelings.

I hope this video is helpful!

Thanks for watching.

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You can watch Part One here.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VZU90…

Kayi Cheung

2018-08-16T09:27:37+00:00